Parallel Parking

When you see an opening that interests you, how do you approach it?  Do you rush to fill the spot before anyone else can get to it?  Or do you move slowly and analyze the best way to enter?  Your answer may depend upon what surrounds the space.  If there are no obstacles that you may hit, it makes sense to take a direct approach and move quickly.  However, if there are things (or people) in the way, you should proceed with caution.  You can use parallel parking as an analogy.  There is car in front of your space and one behind it.  You need to go in backwards, at an angle, and at close proximity to the other cars.  Consider how that strategy can work for other opportunities.

When you back up, make sure you keep your target in sight.  Going backward requires more concentration and attention to detail than moving forward.  Your progress can sometimes be assessed better by how close you are to what is behind you rather than what is in front of you.  When you look back, do so with a purpose.  Don't dwell on the past.  Use it to mark the spot for your fresh start.

There are adjustments that need to be made when you try to fit into a space that has limits to it.  Remember that you won't be "parked" there permanently, so leave yourself enough space for an exit.   Don't let others confine your thoughts and aspirations.  You control the wheel of possibility for where you want to go.  Steer it in the direction that allows you to perform productively in your personal and professional roles. 

The phrase "too close for comfort" is often associated with something unpleasant.  However, it can be an indication of a hard fought victory.  Don't avoid tough topics, challenging situations, or high expectations.  These are the things that will bring out your best and build your confidence.  Your success may be found right in the middle of the past failures that are fresh in your memory and future obstacles that are right in front of you.  

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