Friendship Frames

Friends are an extension of you.  There is a connection that supports and defines you.  Your friends are frames that surround you to give you structure and highlight your value.  Think of them as picture frames, eyeglass frames, and certificate frames. Each type of frame has a similar purpose, but may differ in what it contains and how it is used.

Picture frames hold photographs.  They display moments that were captured to be shared.  You have friends that do the same thing for you.  Some friends can be counted on to remember your best moments, always put a smile on your face, and provide backup when you need it.  You may have heard the phrase that "a picture is worth a thousand words".  If it is that valuable then the frame that holds it needs to be stable, the right size, and able to showcase the contents.  In today's shorthand lingo, this may be your BFF.

Eyeglass frames can hold the lenses to help you see better or simply function as a fashion accessory.  Your inner circle of friends should include people that act as the frames for your prescription lenses.  They have power (authority), listen carefully so that any advice they give is tailored to your personality and situation, and look beyond right now to help you see what is ahead of you.  You may also know some folks that are more like reading glasses.  They may be more direct and help you see the details of risks/rewards of potential opportunities.  Their suggestions won't necessarily be specific to you.  The value of what they say lies in the broad range of experience that they may have.  There also some frames that have no lenses.  These are like the friends you have more for style than substance.  They don't help you see anything, but they help you express your individuality and get noticed. 

Certificate frames hold diplomas, licenses, and other symbols of accomplishment.  These friends may serve as mentors, coaches, or role models.  They are trying to help you achieve something.  There may be different expectations in these relationships.  Work will be involved as well as fun.  When they agree to help you, they invest time and energy into your goals.  They will hold you accountable for what you tell them you want to do.

Leave a comment and share some of the friends/frames that have made a difference in your life. Send this post to them and let them know that they are appreciated.