Lock and Key

Do you watch any of the criminal investigation procedural shows that are so popular now?  There is usually a similar storyline each week that involves analysis of DNA evidence.  The combination of science and technology can use a lock of hair to identify a suspect or a victim.  The data produced may be the key to solving the case. While you may not solve crimes on a regular basis, there are probably certain dilemmas that you face that have similar attributes.  Do you have the keys (answers) to the locks (questions) that may hinder your progress?

Locks represent a symbol of security.  They are used to help you feel safe and comfortable. However, you may need to step outside of your comfort zone to succeed.  Open questions sometimes provide excuses for lack of activity.  The best answer may not be revealed until you try something and see if it works.  Notice that the phrase "best answer" was used instead of  "right answer".  So much of what you encounter is like a multiple choice test.  There may be more than one correct response.  Another option might be none of the above.  However, you cannot get credit (benefits) if you select nothing.  Sometimes you need to use the process of elimination to discover the option that works for you.  It is okay to skip a question and come back to it later.  Just make sure that you move on the next one instead of getting stuck on what you don't know.

Keys represent possibilities.  You have the opportunity to explore what is behind closed doors or start engines to put the wheels of your ideas into motion.  Make sure there are keys on your chain for these characteristics and actions:

• Optimism - Look for the reason why something will work instead of focusing on everything that might go wrong.  While it is important to have a contingency plan to handle problems, you also need to have an implementation plan for when things go well.

• Perseverance - You have heard the old adage that if at first you don't succeed, then try again.  When you experience resistance along your path, recognize that there are other routes to your destination.  

• Expression - People will support what you are trying to do if they understand what it is and how they can contribute to it.  You must be able to share your vision with others.  If you cannot clearly articulate it, then learn how to display it visually.  Your expression of your goals impacts the impression that others have of them.

• Navigation -  As you pursue your goals, you will need to make adjustments along the way.  A right turn may help you avoid heavy traffic.  Use your creativity to set yourself apart from the crowd.  If you go left, there may be unexpected shortcuts to help you avoid delays.  Learn from others that have blazed the trail before you.  

Leave a comment and share how you will use the lock and key analogy this week.