Repair or Replace

The things that you use on a regular basis eventually begin to show wear and tear.  Appliances, cars, electronics, clothes, and shoes are some examples of items that need to be maintained.  Even if you take excellent care of  your things, at some point they will no longer work as designed.  If something has served its purpose and is no longer needed, you might decide to throw it away.  More often, you will probably decide if you want to repair or replace it.  What factors do you consider to make that call?

Repairing an item may be the best choice if you are dealing with something that has sentimental value to you.  If it cannot be replaced, then you want to do everything possible to preserve it.  Promises and non-digital photographs are examples of things that are not easily duplicated.  If they are broken or destroyed, you feel a sense of loss.  A typical repair kit might include tape or glue.  You need an adhesive to put things back together again.  Identify the people, places, or things that function as bridges in your life.  They can help you put together the broken pieces.  A close friend may be able to provide the right words of support when you need to fix a situation.  A spa or favorite vacation spot can improve your perspective on difficulties that you may be experiencing.  If you have a motto or song that inspires you, it might help you establish a bond with others.

Replacements are needed when something is damaged beyond repair or you want a newer, improved model.  Technology changes at such an amazing pace (mobile phone, computers, cameras, televisions, etc.) that a lot of people get new devices every few years.  People and relationships are not that interchangeable.  However, roles and responsibilities can be reassigned, or replaced.  As you grow and become exposed to different experiences, some people in your circle may not be able to advise you as they have in the past.  You still love them and value their opinion, but must recognize when someone else is better equipped to assist you.  If you get in a situation that is slightly over your head, a lifeguard (family member or friend) can rescue you.  When you are lost at sea and cannot see the shore, you need the Coast Guard (an experienced team of people trained to search and rescue).  Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it.  Know the difference between who can throw you a life preserver and who will jump in to pull you out of trouble.

Leave a comment and share areas where you may need repairs or replacements.