Second Opinion

When people receive unwelcome medical news, they often seek a second opinion.  This involves seeing a another physician to verify that the initial diagnosis and recommended treatment are correct.  There are other times when someone may want to hear what you think about a decision that they have made.  When you are asked to provide a second opinion on something, give it some thought and use the IMHO model.  IMHO is commonly used as shorthand for In My Humble Opinion.  However, for this post it will mean Inquiry, Moderation, History, and Objectivity.

Inquiry - When you are asked to give your opinion, you should ask questions before you give any answers.  It is important to understand the motives of the person seeking your input.  You also need to know the consequences of your response.  An informed opinion has value and influence.

Moderation - A balanced opinion recognizes the pros and cons of different options.  Try to stay away from extremes and absolutes.  Make sure that alternatives are evaluated with an eye on achieving the end goal.

History - If you are being asked to provide an opinion on something, you probably have experience in that area.  Use your background and connections to give relevant feedback when you are consulted.  Your history gives you a unique perspective on any given situation.  Share what you have learned so that others may benefit from it.

Objectivity - Be an impartial listener and observer of the facts.  Do not react emotionally.  Be the voice of reason to help others see through the distractions that could lead them to make unwise choices. 

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