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Friday, August 26, 2011

Revolving Doors

Revolving doors are in constant motion.  Although the doors go around in circles, there is an opening for people to enter and exit the building.  When you hear the phrase "going around in circles", you may think that no progress is being made.  That is not necessarily true.  As long as you recognize where the opening is, you can move past the barrier of the door.  This works for a physical door as well as a mental block, or obstacle.  Look for open minds, open hearts, and open communication to help you identify the right spots to step into the place you want to be.

Open minds are able to process what they receive with objectivity and patience.  As information revolves through the doors of your mind, you must decide how to interpret it.  Take your time and determine how you can use what you read and hear to your advantage. While you may have preconceived notions about some things, consider that there may be room for you to discover a fresh perspective.

Open hearts allow you to connect with others that can help you reach your destination.  Be aware that as people revolve through the doors of your life, they may also need your assistance.  When they leave something of value with you, make sure that you are not causing a void, or deficit, for them.  Deposit your wisdom, grace, and optimism into those around you in order to enrich their lives.

Open communication is necessary for you to make informed decisions regarding where you are going and how you will get there.  When you ask questions, make sure that you pause to really listen to the answers.  Pay attention when people are talking to you, so that you can learn and grow from the interaction.  When you are providing an answer to a question, remember that others may not comprehend things the way that you do.  Strive to present information in a way that makes sense to the person that needs to grasp it.

Leave a comment and share how you will open your mind, heart, and communication to achieve your goals.

1 comment:

  1. The more I try to improve on my communication skills, the more I can achieve my goals. I try to stay focused on the present, your feelings, understanding one another and finding a solution. GTW

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